Compromising is a conflict resolution style in which parties agree to sacrifice some of their needs in exchange for having others met. It can occur in a conflict when all parties care about the relationship and also care about the goals of the conflict, but they also hold some flexibility in their positions.
As a style, compromising is:
Thus, the nature of compromising positions it at the middle level of both these behaviors. No party gets everything that they want, but everyone gets something that they want and the relationship is maintained.
EXAMPLE
A new metro stop is opening in a city, and there are many different ideas for how the neighborhood around the new metro stop should develop. Current residents are worried about getting priced out by increasing rents. Developers want to build new luxury high-rises near the metro stop. The city planner wants more housing built in the city, of any type, to support the tax base. The neighborhood's city councilor just wants everyone to be happy, so that they vote for the councilor for reelection.EXAMPLE
You and your spouse are having a disagreement about whether to spend Thanksgiving with your spouse's family or whether to host your own Thanksgiving and invite your own family and friends. Your spouse enjoys their family tradition, while you'd more enjoy hosting and not having to travel.EXAMPLE
You have worked at your company for five years, and you have always received positive evaluations. You recently found out that you make less money than several of your colleagues, who have the same role and responsibilities and have a shorter tenure than you. You approach your manager and ask for a raise to match your colleagues' salary.This particular style of conflict has, as all styles do, both positive and negative outcomes.
A positive outcome is a resolution to a conflict that a party perceives as meeting their needs and/or reducing the likelihood of further conflict.
A negative outcome is a resolution that the party perceives as not meeting their needs and/or increasing the likelihood of further conflict.
EXAMPLE
Let's go back to the new metro stop scenario.EXAMPLE
Return to the Thanksgiving travel and hosting plan.EXAMPLE
Think of the example of being turned down for a raise.Source: Adapted from Sophia tutorial by Marlene Johnson.